After a few months away, I'm back and I have something to show for it.

Tomorrow, two episodes of Raising Geniuses drop. A podcast about how history's greatest minds were actually raised and what their parents did differently.

Episode 1: The Wright Brothers

Episode 2: Einstein

Links tomorrow.

While you wait, here's something I've been thinking about:

We get mad at our kids. They act out and we react.

Every mistake becomes a lesson we beat them over the head with. Every outburst met with another outburst.

But here's what we forget: they're still figuring it out. Their brains are still developing. They don't understand their own feelings yet. They're learning what it means to be a person.

The last thing they need is a parent who makes them feel worse for it.

They need the opposite. A parent who absorbs the chaos instead of adding to it. Who forgives quickly. Who models what calm actually looks like.

Because here's the hard truth: how we act is how our kids will act.

We are the example whether we want to be or not.

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